Posted by : Devva jay
Senin, 16 Februari 2015
By Tim AndrieWongso
Often we are faced with the insecurity that makes us forget the potential of ourselves. For this situation, there was a simple solution.
"Motivating yourself is actually not so difficult," he said motivator Anthony D. Carter. In fact, he said, there are simple ways to do it: 1. Stay focused. We have to stay focused on what we want. Do not be tempted to something new, however interestingly. How to keep us focused, according to Carter, is to always maintain the quality and evaluate our focus. Do not let doubts arise later. We may often given the failures in the past but do not let it adds to our concerns. Take a lesson from the failure of any material that and stay focused on our next step. Thus, the fears will disappear by itself. 2. Read the success stories . Stories of success could provide a huge boost for us to move forward. Success stories tells the heroic figures reverse the impossibility into reality has a powerful inspiration. Especially if the character's background is almost similar to our current situation. In addition to reading success stories, do not forget also to read motivational books, self-development as much as we are able. These books will not only inspire but also will give us additional skills to achieve a successful step. 3. Find support. If we have a mentor or at least a good friend who can be invited to the discussion, do not miss to urun-consultation with them. Discuss our wishes or our ideals and do not forget to ask for their input. Generally they can give you a boost that will strengthen our confidence. 4. Record development. Noting the development of what we are doing is not trivial. Note this development could be a separate drive or motivation. Because it is important to note the stages that we take, whether successful or unsuccessful, for material evaluation. Do not forget also to determine the targets of a series of large while being we take because it would facilitate assessing the progress that has been achieved. 5. Celebrate achievements. Although a temporary achievement, achievement of targets in each phase should also be appreciated. Token of appreciation is not necessarily expensive, there is some sort of revealing important gratitude that our efforts paid off. So there is a little beat plume. For example, the movies (if we rarely go to the movies because of our busy) or lunch / dinner at a previous place we rarely do. Such appreciation will strengthen our confidence and will form the habit of success. It must be remembered that any appreciation that we would get repetitive so that it would provoke the achievements in the next stages. 6. Learning from failure. In the past we may get a failure that continues to haunt us. Do not let us focus on the failures so that we feel helpless. Instead, make it as a lesson. Evaluation why we could fail. Set back the way we take that step so as not to fail again. This can be done by learning more, add skills, or add insight so that we can be more confident. 7. Enjoy the journey. Maybe we did not get what we design although we already do well. No need to despair, as long as we do things properly and carefully bigger results we can get then in spite of the current stage we fail. The important thing is we already have this development, do not go anywhere. Just enjoy the journey as it is a process. If we enjoy the journey we will be happy to do it and it will add excitement and confidence in us. That's the advice of Anthony D. Carter. Well, as much as what we have motivation to achieve our dreams? If you're down , the above steps worth a try.
"Motivating yourself is actually not so difficult," he said motivator Anthony D. Carter. In fact, he said, there are simple ways to do it: 1. Stay focused. We have to stay focused on what we want. Do not be tempted to something new, however interestingly. How to keep us focused, according to Carter, is to always maintain the quality and evaluate our focus. Do not let doubts arise later. We may often given the failures in the past but do not let it adds to our concerns. Take a lesson from the failure of any material that and stay focused on our next step. Thus, the fears will disappear by itself. 2. Read the success stories . Stories of success could provide a huge boost for us to move forward. Success stories tells the heroic figures reverse the impossibility into reality has a powerful inspiration. Especially if the character's background is almost similar to our current situation. In addition to reading success stories, do not forget also to read motivational books, self-development as much as we are able. These books will not only inspire but also will give us additional skills to achieve a successful step. 3. Find support. If we have a mentor or at least a good friend who can be invited to the discussion, do not miss to urun-consultation with them. Discuss our wishes or our ideals and do not forget to ask for their input. Generally they can give you a boost that will strengthen our confidence. 4. Record development. Noting the development of what we are doing is not trivial. Note this development could be a separate drive or motivation. Because it is important to note the stages that we take, whether successful or unsuccessful, for material evaluation. Do not forget also to determine the targets of a series of large while being we take because it would facilitate assessing the progress that has been achieved. 5. Celebrate achievements. Although a temporary achievement, achievement of targets in each phase should also be appreciated. Token of appreciation is not necessarily expensive, there is some sort of revealing important gratitude that our efforts paid off. So there is a little beat plume. For example, the movies (if we rarely go to the movies because of our busy) or lunch / dinner at a previous place we rarely do. Such appreciation will strengthen our confidence and will form the habit of success. It must be remembered that any appreciation that we would get repetitive so that it would provoke the achievements in the next stages. 6. Learning from failure. In the past we may get a failure that continues to haunt us. Do not let us focus on the failures so that we feel helpless. Instead, make it as a lesson. Evaluation why we could fail. Set back the way we take that step so as not to fail again. This can be done by learning more, add skills, or add insight so that we can be more confident. 7. Enjoy the journey. Maybe we did not get what we design although we already do well. No need to despair, as long as we do things properly and carefully bigger results we can get then in spite of the current stage we fail. The important thing is we already have this development, do not go anywhere. Just enjoy the journey as it is a process. If we enjoy the journey we will be happy to do it and it will add excitement and confidence in us. That's the advice of Anthony D. Carter. Well, as much as what we have motivation to achieve our dreams? If you're down , the above steps worth a try.